Money Lessons from an Old Toy Fire TruckBrenda Hamm
Give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, “Who is the Lord?” Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God. ~ Proverbs 30:8b-9
I recall some years ago when I took one of our kids’ toy fire trucks to the curb to be hauled away with the trash. It made me cry.
It was a pathetic, beaten up old thing. The steering wheel was broken. I mean, a piece of it was missing. And none of the battery-operated features – the lights, the siren – ever worked. Not since we bought it.
But that old truck meant something to me.
I still remember the garage sale where we bought the truck for one dollar. We were on our way to my parents’ house, about an hour and a half west of Chicago, where we lived at the time.
It was a season of extreme emotional peaks and valleys. Our first child had just been born. My mom then passed away 30 days later. My dad would soon follow.
That truck strongly reminded me of that season. As challenging as that time was, it was filled with rich moments – such as giving my parents the gift of the only grandchild they would ever meet, visiting my dad as often as we could and hearing him say every time he saw his grandson, “He’s terrific.” I know he would have thought the same of his other two grandkids.
Our first little guy learned to walk pushing that truck. Our second child pushed it around as he was learning to walk as well. And even our third child got a little walking practice courtesy of that scuffed up old truck.
It doesn’t have to be perfect
I’ll never forget going to a birthday party when we just had two kids and the birthday boy had the exact same fire truck, with one exception: everything on his truck worked.
Watching our kids play with that truck, making the lights flash and the siren scream, I remember thinking to myself, “Oh no, we’re busted. Now our kids know what their truck is supposed to be capable of. They’ll never like their truck again. They’ll start asking for one that works.”
The funny thing is, they never said a word. They went back to playing with their old fire truck like it was a great toy.
And they continued to be delighted when they got to pick out a “new” toy at a garage sale. Sure, they loved it whenever they got a perfect brand-new toy, but they were happy with toys that were less than perfect as well. I think that’s a great trait in a kid.
What really makes you happy?
Researchers who study happiness say people who value experiences tend to be happier than those who value things. But I don’t think that’s a lesson you can just slap on like cologne. You have to do some experimenting. You have to live a little life and find out on your own.
I used to be a stuff person. Big time. My identity was tightly wound up in what I owned. The financial crash and burn I went through in my 20s helped reorder my priorities, but it’s been a journey, and it continues to be.
Consider where you are on this journey and where you may have room to grow. Do you easily find contentment and gratitude in the midst of the imperfect? What values are reflected by your lifestyle, pursuits, and attitudes?